Clitoral Stimulation with Sex Toys
Sex toys are a collective term for modern innovations that couples use to heighten sexual arousal. A sex toy can be anything from a string of anal beads to battery-operated dildos. By now, every adult knows about sex toys and where to find them. Moreover, these sex toys are made available in mainstream markets. Nowadays, couples are more open to using sex toys during sex. That women use sex toys for masturbation is no longer a secret, and men have long since understood that vibrators can be used to enhance the sexual experience during sex. The concept that sex toys are for masturbation alone is no longer widely held, although many women still use sex toys for this purpose.
Most sex toys are designed to maximize a woman’s pleasure during sex. Manufacturers know of the need for sex toys that can act as aids for women to reach climax faster. Throughout the years, inventions such as the rabbit vibrator and the many vulva massage gadgets have cropped up. These innovations and all the new features of traditional sex toys make it clear that stimulation of the clitoris is a priority for couples who want to enjoy a healthy sex life.
How to Stimulate the Clitoris Using Sex Toys
Some sex toys are designed with clitoral stimulation in mind. These include the tongue dildo, which is shaped like a lipstick and is obviously designed for clitoral touching. Another one is the magic wand, with a rounded, vibrating end for mound and vulva massage. Among these, the most popular one would be the rabbit-ear dildo. The short flaps (rabbit ears) are meant for stimulating the clitoris while the main shaft is inserted inside the vagina.
There is a lot of marketing hype for clitoris-friendly vibrators, but the truth is, any type of vibrator can be used to stimulate the clitoris. A low vibration can be used to massage the zone near the clitoris. If the vibration is too low, switch to a higher speed to induce orgasm without directly touching the clitoris. Indirect contact is needed for maximum benefit as direct contact may result in pain or soreness.
If the clitoris has been sensitized too much, a cloth can be placed between the vibrator and the clitoris to lessen the intensity. The woman can touch her clitoris using the vibrator during penetration, or the man can use the vibrator to massage the woman’s vulva during oral sex.
In the case of soft vibrators like the tongue dildo, the stimulation can start with gentle rubbing over the entire vulva, to be followed by direct and frequent clitoral stimulation. Feather-like touching of the clitoris is recommended, particularly if the woman is nearing climax.
Some sex toys are compatible with certain lubricants. Some sex toys are also waterproof and can safely be used in the shower or in the bath. To be safe, couples must check whether the model can withstand exposure to water or not.